u know people..actions speak louder than words.it really hurt for being misunderstood. we cant control what other people do, say or think about us. everybody decides their own attitudes, actions and words. so, in order to be like what i wanted - to live at peace with others. i need to know and do my part..just to avoid hurt, frustration, anger..i found that people just dun get me sumtimes.. especially when it comes to person who were very close to us. like me, i prefer to have face-to-face communication- simply talk it out. but sumtimes people cant accept that. i just wnna clear up misunderstanding when possible..in fact, how long do you have to wait to atleast talk.. i know that misunderstandings simply cannot be cleared up just like that.. it needs tolerate, patience, rational etc...but..it can be very frustrating when people gives u negative perceptions. we tend to judge ourselves by our intentions and others by their actions..and it just unfair. i can see that its not easy for other people to appreciate our natural personality..
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