split..

what a word.....in a luv marriage where husband and wife shared plenty of luv....then why should 'split' word came out??...when wife says she doesnt trust her husband and he will emotionally hurt her and she feels harmed by that.. from what i know..it is not permissible for a wife to ask her husband to divorce her except for a strong reason..if we knew that things will be like this and that..we probably will not do that..easy rite..a fren of mine used to tell me..'this life is life of trials and tests..and how quickly it ends..a word that could makes us relieve a bit is..be patient/sabr..in obeying Allah in this life in order for us to attain eternal delight in the gardens of Paradise..just pray that Allah will make it easy for us..m a person with the concept..'GIGO' which means 'garbage in = garbage out'..until one thing happened..for instance, we knew that we are prohibited taking unlawful food into our body..as it will not be as good outcome in our prayers..so..same goes in marriage..what happens there..stays there..enuff with the marital drama..and get real..but m sure everyone will agree with me..- married life can lead to some very emotional and heated arguments..and i hate it..its nice to sit and talk heart to heart with spouse on any conflicts occurs..i alwyas have this in mind..no matter what we are going thru with spouse..always want for ur spouse what u want for urself..i can say that..in married life, its so much easier to gain sin because emotions, frustration and sex (i never use this word in any of my post) involved. its better to bite ur tongue sumtmes..instead of to point out or criticize evry lil thing ur spouse does..all i can say..and always put in mind..just be good to one another..behave well with each other.love each other with what u luv for urself..