get married to sumone we luv, a very caring person is a wonderful moment for everyone. when married life starts there will be few arguments in order to suit each other. there will be conflicts, fights, problems etc..but the most important thing is never put a blind eye and heart to any situation occurs. but sumtimes when we usually hurts so bad..what should we do...explanation is a good thing..with facts..not by making other party to be the guilty one..because no matter how good and nice the person are..they are human too after all. sumtimes what we should do is trying to please the other party well even its hurt inside..as end of the day the wife needs to respect the husband..and the scary thing is its end up sad and bad. still..there is hope.. avoiding all this hard time and need sum rest and peace. there is no point standing up for urself by disagreeing any issues. May Allah help by someway.. or maybe to end the partnership is the only solution left. from my point of view..marriage is phisycal, emotional and mental bonding, companionship that firmly based upon love and compassion that actually bring husband and wife truly find comfort in one another..and for me being as a wife of almost 10mths all i need are to be protected, my economic needs and the most important is giving love..i've watched a program in tv (ustazah) said..'just because the husband has more right and authority in the marriage..it doesnt make him more than his wife..its merely an arrangement the partneship decreed by Allah..but Allah command wives to obey their husbands as a religious obligation..so wives (me too) or future wives need to check urself..in order to fulfill the obligations towards husbands..believe me..its not going to be easy..sumtimes...
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